In a healthy relationship, vulnerability is wonderful. It leads to increased intimacy and closer bonds. When a healthy person realizes that he or she hurt you, they feel remorse and they make amends. Its safe to be honest. In an abusive system, vulnerability is dangerous. Its considered a weakness, which acts as an invitation for more mistreatment. Abusive people feel a surge of power when they discover a weakness. They exploit it, using it to gain more power. Crying or complaining confirms that theyve poked you in the right spot.
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Themes
- Power — The dynamics of influence, authority, and leadership