You need a place just a click over middle range. Dont want to go all-out first time, but you dont want to run on the cheap either. You want atmosphere, but not stuffy. A nice established place.Bob, youre going to give me an ulcer.This is all ammunition, Cart. All ammo. You want to be able to order a nice bottle of wine. Oh, and after dinner, if she says how she doesnt want dessert, you suggest she pick one and youll split it. Women love that. Sharing desserts sexy. Do not go on and on about your job over dinner. Certain death. Get her to talk about hers, and what she likes to do. ThenShould I be writing this down?