“I miss him in so many ways, but right now I miss him in the way you always miss someone when you're single among a room full of couples.”

“I still think I love him more. It's one of those things you never know for certain because there's no way to enter all the relationship data in a computer and have it spit out a definitive answer. ...”

“I was aware that we were both silently making those inevitable comparisons, putting our relationship in context. She is more this and less that. He is better or worse in these ways. It is human nat...”

“I spend the rest of the afternoon trying to explain to Zoe one of the very saddest notions in love and life: sometimes the timing is wrong--and sometimes you realize the heart of the matter way to ...”

“I decided that giving a girl a ring when you're not in a serious relationship is sort of like giving a guy a blow job when you have no real feelings for him. It makes everything feel a little cheap...”

“Being married cuts on your freedom. Having a husband or a relationship at all puts constraints on you. by Michael.”

“I'd rather be a 'THINKER' - Two Healthy Incomes No Kids Early Retirement!”

“Invalidating a womans life choices by saying things like, Oh, but youll regret it if you dont have kids, or, I didnt think I wanted kids either until I had one, is like me going to an Alcoholics An...”

“I had no idea that marriage was only supposed to be between two people who wanted to get between the sheets and make more people. What ever happened to marrying for love or to get on your partners ...”

“No black woman writer in this culture can write "too much". Indeed, no woman writer can write "too much"...No woman has ever written enough.”

“When you reduce a woman to writing, she makes you think of a thousand other women”

“I would venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was often a woman.”