Quotes by Shahida Arabi

“Their manipulation is psychological and emotionally devastating and very dangerous, especially considering the brain circuitry for emotional and physical pain are one and the same (Kross, 2011). W...”

“To any survivor who may be doubting whether what theyve experienced is truly abuse, remember that emotional, verbal, and psychological abuse will never be, and should never be, considered part of t...”

“(a quote from a survivor)Information was key. Once you begin waking up to what has been happening around you the whole time you can begin stopping the cycle which angers the Narcissist to an intere...”

“When you notice someone does something toxic the first time, don't wait for the second time before you address it or cut them off. Many survivors are used to the "wait and see" tactic which only le...”

“The more power they have over your emotions, the less likely youll trust your own reality and the truth about the abuse youre enduring. Knowing the manipulative tactics and how they work to erode y...”

“A child thats being abused by its parents doesnt stop loving its parents, it stops loving itself.”

“The fact of the matter is, if you havent been in an abusive relationship, you dont really know what the experience is like. Furthermore, its quite hard to predict what you would do in the same situ...”

“Dissociation leaves us disconnected from our memories, our identities and our emotions. It breaks the trauma into digestible components, so that different aspects of the trauma get stored in differ...”

“Whats important to remember is that while human beings in general can engage in toxic behaviors from time to time, abusers use these manipulation tactics as a dominant mode of communication. Toxic ...”

“People pleasing does make it easier to ignore the red flags of abusive relationships at the very early stages especially with covert manipulators. We can also become conditioned to continually plea...”

“(a quote from a survivor)Read up on the psychology of abuse. Listen to music. Being alone to process without chatter. Usually outside doing something physical, doing these things helps you believe ...”

“Their manipulation is psychological and emotionally devastating – and very dangerous, especially considering the brain circuitry for emotional and physical pain are one and the same (Kross, 2011). ...”

“To any survivor who may be doubting whether what they’ve experienced is truly abuse, remember that emotional, verbal, and psychological abuse will never be, and should never be, considered part of ...”

“The more power they have over your emotions, the less likely you’ll trust your own reality and the truth about the abuse you’re enduring. Knowing the manipulative tactics and how they work to erode...”

“A child that’s being abused by its parents doesn’t stop loving its parents, it stops loving itself.”

“The fact of the matter is, if you haven’t been in an abusive relationship, you don’t really know what the experience is like. Furthermore, it’s quite hard to predict what you would do in the same s...”

“What’s important to remember is that while human beings in general can engage in toxic behaviors from time to time, abusers use these manipulation tactics as a dominant mode of communication. Toxic...”