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“Blaming other people inevitably makes us blame ourselves because if we are pointing the finger at someone, practically, we are pointing it at ourselves as well.”
“We are often so convinced that we are so hurt and in pain, so much so that we opt not to forgive. Yet, as a consequence, that is what will make you weak!”
“Just because you have been through a bad experience does not give you the ticket to keep going back to that situation over and over again and dramatizing it out of proportion.”
“Overly playing the role of the victim can debar you from accepting responsibility for your actions and emotions.”
“Being joyous or happy is not something you should feel guilty about.”
“The idea of always wanting to be the victim in circumstances where you have been offended is a common human trait. Each person wants to be viewed as the aggrieved party.”
“Do the forgiveness and carry on going forward. Leave the worrying to the other person. Eat what is on your plate and leave the rest to them.”
“In the process of forgiveness, you can only control your own actions and decisions.”
“The purpose of forgiveness is not to make sure that someone ends up changing into what you expect them to be, as this is dominance. The purpose is actually to make your own life better, more worthy...”
“Assuming you are still lost in thought about when exactly you should forgive someone, well the time is NOW.”
“Distancing yourself from some painful event is probably the ignition for the process of forgiveness.”
“Failing to forgive yourself for certain wrongs you committed in the past can create self-dislike.”
“Other people may well not find it relevant that you have forgiven yourself, but you need to know that it is not for them anyway. Everything at the moment is wholly about you.”
“A broken and mended relationship turns out to be stronger than one that has never been broken, almost like how bones can become even stronger once broken and then healed.”
“Take a walk through the garden of forgiveness and pick a flower of forgiveness for everything you have ever done.”
“You are simply naturally inclined to make mistakes just as everyone else is, whether male or female, black or white, young or old. These mistakes are your school of learning, therefore forgiveness ...”
“Forgiveness is not simply a single act, it is a full process.”
“If there ever was someone who had a control over you, someone who could cause you the greatest pain, someone who could ignore your most necessary requirements and someone for whom forgiveness were ...”
“All the resentment that lies in your heart is simply causing damage to you mostly.”
“Just because someone wakes up one morning and says, Today I am going to be rich, does not automatically make them rich. So the same is true with forgiveness, it has to come from the heart with mean...”
