Ive come to think that flourishing consists of putting yourself in situations in which you lose self-consciousness and become fused with other people, experiences, or tasks. It happens sometimes when you are lost in a hard challenge, or when an artist or a craftsman becomes one with the brush or the tool. It happens sometimes while youre playing sports, or listening to music or lost in a story, or to some people when they feel enveloped by Gods love. And it happens most when we connect with other people. Ive come to think that happiness isnt really produced by conscious accomplishments. Happiness is a measure of how thickly the unconscious parts of our minds are intertwined with other people and with activities. Happiness is determined by how much information and affection flows through us covertly every day and year.

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  • Happiness — Thoughts on finding joy, contentment, and fulfilment

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