Mercy is Gods loving response to sinners; and mercy is our loving response to othersand to ourselvesin circumstances of need. To this I would add that mercy, as an experience of love, has an unexpected qualitysomething unforeseen or unanticipated. We talk about mercy when we feel or offer forgiveness, when we find or give help and assistance, but we also speak about mercy when we are surprised by good deeds that catch us unawares and transform our lives for the better.