(...)because Miss Temple has generally something to say which is newer than my own reflections; her language is singularly agreeable to me, and the information she communicates is often just what I wished to gain.Well, then, with Miss Temple you are good?Yes, in a passive way: I make no effort; I follow as inclination guides me. There is no merit in such goodness.A great deal: you are good to those who are good to you. It is all I ever desire to be. If people were always kind and obedient to those who are cruel and unjust, the wicked people would have it all their own way: they would never feel afraid, and sothey would never alter, but would grow worse and worse. When we are struck at without a reason, we should strike back again very hard; I am sure we shouldso hard as to teach the person who struck us never to do it again.You will change your mind, I hope, when you grow older: as yet you are but a little untaught girl.But I feel this, Helen; I must dislike those who, whatever I do to please them, persist in disliking me; I must resist those who punish me unjustly. It is as natural as that I should love those who show me affection, or submit to punishment when I feel it is deserved.Heathens and savage tribes hold that doctrine, but Christians and civilised nations disown it. How? I dont understand.It is not violence that best overcomes hatenor vengeance that most certainly heals injury.What then?Read the New Testament, and observe what Christ says, and how He acts; make His word your rule, and His conduct your example.What does He say?Love your enemies; bless them that curse you; do good to them that hate you and despitefully use you.