“The feeling of love comes and goes on a whim; you can't control it. But the action of love is something you can do, regardless of how you are feeling.”

“The more importance we place on avoiding unpleasant feelings in life, the more our life tends to go downhill.”

“We need to pay attention with a particular attitude: one of openness, curiosity, and receptiveness.”

“The fact that you can act with love even when you dont feel love is very empowering. Why? Because whereas the feelings of love are fleeting and largely out of your control, you can take the actions...”

“The fact that you can act with love even when you don’t feel love is very empowering. Why? Because whereas the feelings of love are fleeting and largely out of your control, you can take the action...”

“It's not that you should never love something so much that it can control you.It's that you need to love something that much so you can never be controlled.It's not a weakness.It's your best strength.”

“No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.”

“The practice of love offers no place of safety. We risk loss, hurt, pain. We risk being acted upon by forces outside our control.”