“Im not paralyzed by fear about what might have been or what might be. Im grateful for what is and I make excellent use of what Ive got.”

“When you get older, you know that lifes mysteries are revealed in the fullness of time. All you have to do is wait, watch, and be amazed.”

“Everything negative, useless, and redundant must go.”

“If youve raced home after working ten-hour days to get dinner on the table every night for twenty yearsyou deserve more than absolution from guilt and the kindness youd give freely to anyone else. ...”

“You dont have to know where youre going. In fact, its better if you dont.”

“Anyone who is willing to work and is serious about it will certainly find a job. Only you must not go to the man who tells you this, for he has no job to offer and doesn't know anyone who knows of ...”

“Choose your counsel, company and companions wisely: beware seeking wise words of advice from a fool or expecting informed opinions or decisions from the ignorant.”

“If you find it difficult to get along with your boss, try to reason with him and talk through your differences. If that doesn't work, drive him to suicide and take over the company.”

“I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense. (xxvi)”

“Spring passes and one remembers one's innocence.Summer passes and one remembers one's exuberance.Autumn passes and one remembers one's reverence.Winter passes and one remembers one's perseverance.”

“Birthdays could be such a bummer when you were older than the country you lived in.”