Dissociation from the body and emotions numbness is a basic requirement of the male ideal. Hardy and Hough point out that the patriarchal cultures influence is so strong on this point that it interferes with men ever recognizing that pain is a normal indicator of a problem. And as the pain or discomfort increases, men are forced to choose between two problematic alternatives:If I admit Im sick then I must do something about it. That may entail seeing a doctor which implies Im weak, not in control of myself, not tough enough.However, if I dont get help, Ill get sicker and more vulnerable, really helpless

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