We always make the best decision we can based upon what we believe in that moment. When I was growing up, my father and I experienced a lot of tension with each other for many years. He had bipolar disorder and it was very difficult for him. As I got older and went through my transformation of consciousness and really forgave himand forgave myself and forgave the worldmy father started showing up in my awareness as an angel. He got happier and happier and our relationship began to improve. People would say, Your dadhas really changed a lot, and I would say, My mind has really changed. My father was just reflecting that back. In fact, he came to me one day and said, David, Im sorry. I was not a very good father. I didnt do the things that a good father should do.I replied, Nonsense! I dont believe that for one instant. You did the best you could and I did the best I could. You didnt let me down and I didnt let you down. Were not going to buy into that guilt trip anymore.He lit up when I said this. His whole demeanor changed and he instantly reflected love back to me. That simple exchange completely rearranged our view of everything that had taken place during those early years. None of it mattered anymore. We had been mistaken about many things because we couldnt perceive truly while we were going through our time together.
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About David Hoffmeister, Quantum Forgiveness: Physics, Meet Jesus
David Hoffmeister, Quantum Forgiveness: Physics, Meet Jesus.
Themes
- Family — The ties of kinship, parenting, and unconditional love