It (trying to keep the law) grants you the power to judge others and feel superior to them. You believe you are living to a higher standard than those you judge. Enforcing rules, especially in its more subtle expressions like responsibility and expectation, is a vain attempt to create certainly out of uncertainty. And contrary to what you might think, I have a great fondness for uncertainty. Rules cannot bring freedom; they only have the power to accuse.
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William Paul Young was Canadian christian author. William Paul Young is a Canadian author. He wrote the religious books The Shack, Cross Roads, Eve, Lies We Believe About God. Read more on Wikipedia →

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