“Everyone is a bore to someone. That is unimportant. The thing to avoid is being a bore to oneself.”

“In a happy marriage it is the wife who provides the climate, the husband the landscape.”

“Poets and painters are outside the class system or rather they constitute a special class of their own like the circus people and the gypsies.”

“It is by sitting down to write every morning that he becomes a writer. Those who do not do this remain amateurs.”

“Words are as recalcitrant as circus animals and the unskilled trainer can crack his whip at them in vain.”

“Poets and painters are outside the class system or rather they constitute a special class of their own like the circus people and the gypsies.”

“I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be okay with being different, and with being this alive, this intense. (xxvi)”

“Spring passes and one remembers one's innocence.Summer passes and one remembers one's exuberance.Autumn passes and one remembers one's reverence.Winter passes and one remembers one's perseverance.”

“Birthdays could be such a bummer when you were older than the country you lived in.”

“The only time they ever throw anything away is when it's really and truly broken, and then they make a big deal about it. They save up all their bent pins and broken sewing needles and once a year ...”

“We were young. Everyone was young in those days. Thats the main complaint you hear from people who are getting old. You stop seeing young people. You begin to wonder if there are any left and wheth...”

“If only I had met Molly sooner, when it was still possible to choose one road rather than another. Before that bitch Musyne and that little turd Lola crimped my enthusiasm. But it was too late to s...”

“The land of easy mathematics where he who works adds up and he who retires subtracts.”

“At the age of 45, most days in Tucson were spent feeling like I was on the summit of Mauna Kea, as I was exhibiting debilitating health symptoms that corresponded to what I saw at very high altitud...”

“The hour is only long thus, if you've waited.”