“-Forced love hurts God.-How can you hurt something that doesnt exist?-At the end of our lives it is our loves we remember most because they are what shaped us. We have grown to be who we are around...”

“one does not remember ones own pain. It is the suffering of others that undoes us”

“Most people have no imagination. If they could imagine the sufferings of others, they would not make them suffer so.”

“-“Forced love hurts God.” -“How can you hurt something that doesn’t exist?”-“At the end of our lives it is our loves we remember most because they are what shaped us. We have grown to be who we are...”

“one does not remember one’s own pain. It is the suffering of others that undoes us”

“All work is the avoidance of harder work.”

“If you pay attention, you may find that it is not fear that stops you from doing the brave and true thing in your daily life. Rather, the problem is avoidance. You want to feel comfortable, so you ...”

“Laws of silence dont work. When something is festering in your memory or your imagination, laws of silence dont work, its just like shutting a door and locking it on a house on fire in hope of forg...”

“How 'bout a shot of truth in that denial cocktail.”

“... you sometimes had to force people to say things they would rather not articulate, just so they could hear their own words. It was interesting the way people could know things and not know them ...”

“To regret ones own experiences is to arrest ones own development. To deny ones own experiences is to put a lie into the lips of ones own life. It is no less than a denial of the soul.”