“I have always found that actively lovingsaves one from a morbid preoccupationwith the shortcomings of society.”

“There is only one way in which one can endure man's inhumanity to man and that is to try, in one's own life, to exemplify man's humanity to man.”

“There is a hard law. When an injury is done to us, we never recover until we forgive. ”

“There's a hard law, mejuffrou, that when a deep injury is done to us, we never recover until we forgive.”

“When I go up there, which is my intention, the Big Judge will say to me, Where are your wounds? and if I say I havent any, he will say, Was there nothing to fight for? I couldnt face that question.”

“ This world is full of trouble, umfundisi. Who knows it better? Yet you believe? Kumalo looked at him under the light of the lamp. I believe, he said, but I have learned that it is a secret. Pain ...”

“When I say it's you I like, I'm talking about that part of you that knows that life is far more than anything you can ever see or hear or touch. That deep part of you that allows you to stand for t...”

“You know Balbec so well - do you have friends in the area?'I have friends wherever there are companies of trees, wounded but not vanquished, which huddle together with touching obstinacy to implore...”

“Things that matter are not easy. Feelings of happiness are easy. Happiness is not. Flirting is easy. Love is not. Saying youre friends is easy. Being friends is not.”