“People must come to the understanding that they do not have a fixed identity. They have the power to identify and alter features of their personalities that they find negative or unpleasant.”

“It is a full-time job to cope with alien elements from both interpersonal sources and societal influences.”

“To the extent that we retain the critical attitudes and destructive elements we have incorporated into our own personalities, we remain undifferentiated from our parents throughout our lifetime.”

“They implicitly trust that their thoughts, beliefs, and feelings are their own, and fail to recognize that they may be channeling someone elses thoughts and feelings.”

“Differentiation is a universal struggle that all human beings face if they wish to fully develop themselves as individuals.”

“You are a divine being. You matter, you count. You come from realms of unimaginable power and light, and you will return to those realms.”

“If you think you are too small to be effective, you have never been in the dark with a mosquito!”

“Believe in the wonderment of life, the magic of love, and the reality of death.”