Absolutely devout in her complete care of my body, she had only taught me to be weak and voiceless. But I had unlearned that lesson. Our enmeshment no longer felt to me like proof of love. I was no longer willing to permit this silencing. Helplessness didn't have to be my identity, I wasn't condemned to it. I was willingableto change. Our enmeshment had been enabled by my belief that I needed her to help me, to take care of things for meand to save mebut, back in the home where I'd learned this helplessness, I found I no longer felt that I was trapped in it.
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