“Sobriety had happened at a strange time in my sex life, and maybe I wouldnt have held onto it had it not been for both of the men involved in the transition. But sobriety made me realize, in lonely...”

“It wasnt closure, really. But Id said the right things. Id hit on some truths. Maybe some things didnt get closure. Maybe some things werent really worth it, or didnt really need it, and after a wh...”

“I tried for a decade not to feel anything, I said. I didnt wipe away the tear that broke free. Hed already seen me cry. Erwin had seen me in literally every humor except perfectly happy. I had noth...”

“Sobriety had happened at a strange time in my sex life, and maybe I wouldn’t have held onto it had it not been for both of the men involved in the transition. But sobriety made me realize, in lonel...”

“It wasn’t closure, really. But I’d said the right things. I’d hit on some truths. Maybe some things didn’t get closure. Maybe some things weren’t really worth it, or didn’t really need it, and afte...”

“Just remember something, okay? And this is neither here nor there but it’s something I really want you to know. Not that I think you have much trouble with this, but let’s be clear: you don’t owe y...”

“Just remember something, okay? And this is neither here nor there but it’s something I really want you to know. Not that I think you have much trouble with this, but let’s be clear: you don’t owe y...”

“A hallmark of virtuous adulthood is learning to find freedom in your work rather than freedom from your work, even when work might hurt.”

“Parenting requires a delicate balance of letting your child be your spiritual teacher while you maintain the clarity and boundaries to be her Earthly teacher.”

“Remember, nothing is ever created or destroyed. Therefore, unresolved emotional pain from childhood does not dissolve by itself. It sits waiting to be declared, and a child is the ultimate vehicle ...”