Growth is betrayal.
John Updike, Rabbit Redux.
“Who'll hold families together, if everybody has to live? Living is a compromise, between doing what you want and doing what other people want.”
“Women, fire in their crotch, won't burn out, begin by fighting off pricks, end by going wild hunting for one that still works.”
“Chaos is God's body. Order is the Devil's chains.”
“Oh,' she says, 'the Vat prints nothing but rapes. You know what a rape usually is? It's a woman who changed her mind afterward.”
“You teach me now how cruel you've been - cruel and false. Why did you despise me? Why did you betray your own heart, Cathy? I have not one word of comfort. You deserve this. You have killed yoursel...”
“I knew they would kill me when they found out, but He struggled for words, releasing a sharp breath. I think I realized that I would rather die because I betrayed them, than live because I betrayed...”
“Ah," she cried, "you look so cool." Their eyes met, and they stared together at each other, alone in space. With an effort she glanced down at the table.You always look so cool," she repeated.She h...”
“You will be a different person after the storm, because the storm will heal you from your perfection.”
“Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.”
“In his forty-third year William Stoner learned what others, much younger, had learned before him: that the person one loves at first is not the person one loves at last, and that love is not an end...”