remembering and forgiving can be contrary things
Marilynne Robinson, Gilead.
“Well, but you two are dancing around in your iridescent little downpour, whooping and stomping as sane people ought to do when they encounter a thing so miraculous as water.”
“Memory can make a thing seem to have been much more than it was.”
“When something ought to be true then it proves to be a very powerful truth.”
“I felt, as I have often felt, that my failing the truth could have no bearing at all on the Truth itself, which could never conceivably be in any sense dependent on me or on anyone.”
“There is no justice in love, no proportion in it, and there need not be, because in any specific instance it is only a glimpse or parable of an embracing, incomprehensible reality. It makes no sens...”
“I have been thinking about existence lately. In fact, I have been so full of admiration for existence that I have hardly been able to enjoy it properly . . . I feel sometimes as if I were a child w...”
“every time God forgives us, God is saying that God's own rules do not matter as much as the relationship that God wants to create with us.”
“I've never heard anyone say "I wish I hadn't forgiven.”
“We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness an...”