Do not whine... Do not complain. Work harder. Spend more time alone.
Joan Didion, Blue Nights.
“I tell you this true story just to prove that I can. That my frailty has not yet reached a point at which I can no longer tell a true story.”
“We still counted happiness and health and love and luck and beautiful children as "ordinary blessings.”
“When we talk about mortality we are talking about our children.”
“Alcohol has its own well-know defects as a medication for depression but no one has ever suggested - ask any doctor - that it is not the most effective anti-anxiety agent yet known.”
“Memories are what you no longer want to remember.”
“In theory momentos serve to bring back the moment. In fact they serve only to make clear how inadequately I appreciated the moment when it was here. How inadequately I appreciated the moment when i...”
“As regards intellectual work it remains a fact, indeed, that great decisions in the realm of thought and momentous discoveries and solutions of problems are only possible to an individual, working ...”
“We are all alone, born alone, die alone, andin spite of True Romance magazineswe shall all someday look back on our lives and see that, in spite of our company, we were alone the whole way. I do no...”
“I never really understood the word loneliness. As far as I was concerned, I was in an orgy with the sky and the ocean, and with nature.”
“The nonessential employees, the type of workers whom remain at home when it snows, are the quickest to complain about how the talented persons of an organization behave.”
“Complaining is a vain way of explaining pain without gaining relief. Keep complains distances away from you.”
“But as I have noticed on more than one occaision, life itself is unfair, and there is no complaint department, so we might as well accept things the way they happen, clean up the mess, and move on.”
“Lost Time is never found again.”
“How you spend your time is more important than how you spend your money. Money mistakes can be corrected, but time is gone forever.”
“Men talk of killing time, while time quietly kills them.”